What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and also feels (eventually) from the heart.
Complete of attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on providing or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about an established result
A tantric massage will always be various. You never understand how it will turn out. It is not the strategy or the desired series of massaging that is necessary, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? What benefits her/him? Love understands what to do, enjoy constantly has a suitable reaction. Therefore the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required. Sufficient is that the giver exists and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take a very unexpected course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in bliss.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a very long time, obviously, however since the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver always need to be guaranteed. Loving attunement always precedes.
Set clear limits in advance
It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to always be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is also completely okay (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Triggering and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with respect for (shared) boundaries. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ development/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural delighted state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a fantastic physical, psychological wellness
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally good, sometimes delicious. We, therefore, invite you to fully take pleasure in getting ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (focused on enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, but of a completely different order than relaxation massage Why? Well because you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. You do not go to sleep (unless you are really exhausted), you are really alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it different. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a kind of style nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is a profession apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery results, but that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand apart:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need complimentary, do not push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Build in combination (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, enjoyable, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver Why not give this a try? you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your very own "needs", keep away from your own issues and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Again, don't attempt to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Perhaps you are dissatisfied when somebody drops off to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no objective. No intended result. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect boundaries, set clear borders beforehand. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Delighting in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer combination moments (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not hurry towards the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (in some cases completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery effect. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you learn what it is like to enjoy yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love change, you may become not only joyful however even blissful. A happy state of being is possible. The more you give up, the better you will feel.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Full of attention and existence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Generally leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness (of both).